I was a big fan of the book, "He's Just Not That Into You" when that was the biggest thing going. I truly feel like that book changed my life. I stopped making excuses for people that did not want to be with me. I accepted it and moved on. Not only did it help me with men, it helped me with my relationships with others.
Now I keep hearing about a different book called, "Getting Naked: Five Steps to Finding the Love of Your Life." The book is by Harlan Cohen and I decided I should read it. I bought it last week and have been reading it for a few days now.
Although I do not find this book as interesting as "He's Just Not That Into You," I feel like this book would be very valuable for certain people. Some people feel like they just have to be in a relationship at all times. Other people have really low self-esteem when it comes to dating. I believe this book would be excellent for those folks.
For me, I am always pretty honest with guys when dating them. I also firmly believe there are plenty of men out there that would want to date me. Since these are the things the book teaches you, I don't know that I am getting a lot out of it, but it is still a decent book. I do feel like the author repeats himself a lot, but I do know that is one way to get your message to sink in. For some people that have a hard time accepting the points this book is trying to make, it could be a good way of forcing them to face the truth.
If you are not always that honest with those you are dating, perhaps you should read this book. If you are stuck in a relationship and you are unhappy, you should read this book. If you haven't had a date since 1983, you should read this book. It will certainly help a lot of daters out there, so I do recommend, "Getting Naked" for those that need some dating advice.
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