Some examples of people who are not ready to date:
- People who are about to go into rehab.
- People who need to go to rehab.
- People that are about to go to jail.
- People who just got out of jail.
- People who just went through a bad breakup.
- People who are still obsessed with an ex.
- People who hate everyone because of an ex.
- People that are currently unemployed and looking for work.
- People living with their parents because they have nowhere else to go.
Now I realize the last two examples might anger some people. They might think just because they are unemployed or live with their parents, they are not undateable. Sorry. You need to rethink that situation.
If you are looking for a job, you need to seriously focus on that. I know dating sites take up a lot of time. You know what you could be doing instead? Applying for jobs! I realize you might have some free time now that you are unemployed to look for love, but you really need to focus on other priorities. Instead of paying for dinners, you should be saving your money in case you don't find a job for a while.
If you live with your parents, you need to consider moving out. If you are living with your parents only because you are out of work, trust me, you have my sympathy. You are not a bad person at all. I am sure you are a wonderful person. However, you need to seriously focus on other issues in your life.
I am in no way saying any of those examples above make you undateable forever. You need to work on your issues so you have a lot to offer another person. No one wants to step into your life that is full of problems and drama. If you do find someone like that, chances are, it is because that person thrives on drama. Is that really who you want to date? Probably not. So just hold off, get your life together, and then look for someone on a dating site. Trust me, you will find better people to date.
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