I would like to talk about a serious subject I think everyone should cover when discussing online dating: safety. And no, I am not talking about safe sex, although that is important, too. I am talking about being safe when you date someone you just met off the internet.
First and foremost, I would highly recommend going through a process before ever meeting up with someone. Personally, I like to talk at least a few days or more online, then talk on the phone a bit, and then meet a guy if I feel comfortable and he has passed the email/phone tests.
When meeting someone for the first time, pick a nice, neutral spot. Do not meet at either person's home. That is too much at first and just not safe. Also, do not pick a secluded spot. Choose a location with other people because that is safest. Plus, let someone know you are going out on a date with a new person and tell them to expect a call from you when you return from the date. If they don't hear from you, they should try to contact you to make sure you are OK.
Another good tip for online dating is to go on a judiciary case search site and look for this new person online. You will have to get a last name to conduct this search, and you may not have that info until you've at least gone out once. Once you have the name, you can use your state's free judicial search site. You will be able see criminal and civil cases. It can really help prevent you from getting involved with a creep.
Remember to go with your gut instincts, too. If something seems wrong, don't do it. If you feel uncomfortable, take yourself out of the situation. You are an adult and don't let anyone talk you into something you don't feel right about. It is your life and make sure to be safe about it!
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