I've been on a lot of first dates recently. The fact that I have not been on a lot of second first dates, says quite a bit about the experiences I've been having. Some people are just scaring me away right off the bat. It is not about "not connecting" or "no chemistry." It is about people being too blunt.
There are some things I just don't need to know unless I am in a relationship with someone. I don't need to know about crazy exes, or weird embarrassing pimples, or anything else like that. Let's just have a nice date at a restaurant and talk about food, jobs, and the weather. Didn't people used to do that? I understand people might feel comfortable around me, but no. Even if you start to feel comfortable, stop. It is still a first date.
Lately, even my friends have been telling me about their crazy dates. I am talking about men, women, gay, straight... whatever! Everyone is crazy! It is a scary dating world out there and the most I can figure out is everyone is nuts. Just remember, you don't have to let the person you are dating know you are nuts at first. Just try to be normal for the first few dates, OK?
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