While combing through the fascinating world of online dating profiles, a common theme I see in guys' profiles is what I would like to call, "the nice guy" syndrome. You see, many guys claim they are so nice. Furthermore, some guys outright whine about how nice guys finish last. Let me tell you something, guys, not all of you are as nice as you claim.
Let's face it, if you are sitting around talking about nice you are, you might not be that nice. If you were really that nice, you wouldn't need to proclaim it. Really nice guys are just known as nice guys. There is no need to advertise it. Perhaps you think you are a nice guy, but you really aren't.
I've dated some self-proclaimed "nice guys." You know what? They weren't that nice. Nice guys do nice things. Here are some things guys are doing that are not nice at all, yet they think they are nice...
-Not calling when they say they will.
-Not showing up for dates.
-Not showing up on time for dates.
-Bad mouthing ex-girlfriends.
-Being too pushy or outright mean.
You see, dudes, none of that is NICE! Some of you guys need to pick up a dictionary and look up the word "nice." You know that old saying, "nice guys finish last"? That saying does not apply to many of you. Some of you guys are total jerks. Guess what? Jerks finish last sometimes, too. Make sure to take that into consideration next time before you claim you are so nice. For now, just remove "nice" from your profile anyway. Even if you are nice, you don't need to say it. Act in a nice way, and you'll be fine.
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